Your Ultimate Guide to Wedding Stationery

Welcome to the Felicitations guide to wedding stationery. With over two decades of experience designing for Australia's most stylish couples from our Perth studio, we have distilled the art of wedding stationery into this single, comprehensive resource.

This is more than a checklist; it's a strategic guide to creating a cohesive and unforgettable narrative for your celebration. From the very first Save the Date to the final Thank You card, every detail is an opportunity to tell your story. Here, we provide the clarity and expert advice you need to navigate the journey with confidence and impeccable style.

For your convenience, the complete 21-page editorial guide is also available as a beautifully designed PDF to save and reference anytime.

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The Wedding Stationery Timeline: When to Design, Print & Send

Perfect timing is the foundation of a seamless experience for both you and your guests. Adhering to this timeline ensures a stress-free process, allowing ample time for thoughtful design, meticulous printing, and timely delivery.

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Begin the Journey & Order Save the Dates

10-14 Months Before Your Wedding

This is the first whisper of your celebration, a beautifully crafted promise of what’s to come. The Save the Date builds excitement and, most importantly, gives your guests the courtesy of time.

Your Action Plan: Engage with our studio to design and order your Save the Dates. Once they arrive, plan to mail them to your guests 8-12 months prior to your wedding day.

Expert Tip: The Save the Date is your guests' planning toolkit. It's essential to include your wedding website and any critical accommodation or travel details here. Don't wait for the formal invitation; this is when they need this information to commit to joining you.

A Savvy Style Note: Are you currently just 6-7 months from your wedding day? The most stylish and budget-conscious decision is to forgo the Save the Date. Instead, channel that investment into an absolutely breathtaking invitation suite and send it out promptly. It’s about making a singular, powerful statement.

Explore our curated examples for announcing your engagement and saving the date.

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Craft & Order Your Invitation Suite

6-8 Months Before Your Wedding

This is the heart of your stationery suite—the formal announcement that details the celebration you have so lovingly planned. This is where the story truly unfolds.

Your Action Plan: This is the ideal window to collaborate with us on your complete invitation suite. Once perfected and printed, you will mail these to your guests 4-6 months before the wedding. Within your suite, your RSVP card should request a reply 6-8 weeks before the wedding date. This provides you with a definitive guest list in time to finalise seating and catering.

Expert Tip: Think of your invitation as a cohesive package of information. A beautifully designed Details Card is the most elegant way to house information about your dress code, transportation, and wishing well, keeping your main invitation clean and impactful.


Discover the art of wording for every card in your invitation suite.

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Finalise & Order 'On the Day' Stationery

1-2 Months Before Your Wedding

Now we translate your suite’s design narrative into the tangible elements that will immerse your guests in the beauty of the day itself. This is about creating a seamless, branded environment from the moment they arrive.

Your Action Plan: Begin the design process with us for all your on-the-day pieces—menus, place cards, seating charts, and signage. We will finalise every design detail to ensure a cohesive aesthetic well in advance.

Expert Tip: We employ a strategic two-step process for ultimate peace of mind. We finalise the design with you now, but we delay the final printing of items like seating charts and place cards until 2-3 weeks before your wedding. This unique flexibility allows for any last-minute guest list changes without compromising on style or quality. It’s the secret to a flawless finish.


Find inspiration for wording your welcome signs, menus, and more.

Order & Send Thank You Cards

Up to 3 Months After Your Wedding

The final note of your celebration should be one of sincere and polished gratitude. A modern Thank You card is a beautifully designed keepsake that conveys your appreciation with elegance and efficiency.

Your Action Plan: After the wedding, select a favourite professional photograph and a heartfelt, universal message to be beautifully printed on your cards. We will design a layout that complements your entire stationery suite.

Expert Tip: A pre-printed message can be just as impactful as a handwritten note when crafted with sincerity. We recommend a warm, encompassing phrase like, "Thank you for celebrating with us and for being a part of our story. Your love and support mean the world to us." This creates a polished and consistent statement of gratitude for every guest.


Learn how to craft the perfect message of thanks for your guests.

A Note on Our Process

Artistry requires time. We ask that you allow 7-10 business days for our standard printing process after your final design approval. For celebrations on an accelerated timeline, rush services are available for an additional charge. To ensure a seamless journey, we always recommend contacting our Perth studio at your earliest convenience to reserve your place in our design calendar.

Beyond the design and wording lies the critical art of the guest list. Navigating who to invite, how to address them, and precisely how many invitations to order requires a blend of etiquette and strategy. Here is our expert guidance on these essential details.

The Art of the Count:

How Many Invitations to Order

This is one of the most common questions we receive, and our answer is a straightforward, two-step process to get it right.

Step 1: Get Your Base Number
The first rule is simple: you order per household, not per guest. To get a quick and reliable estimate, you can use a powerful industry formula: your invitation quantity will be approximately 60% of your total guest number. For a wedding of 100 guests, you'll need roughly 60 invitations. This is a brilliant starting point before you do a final, detailed count of every household, couple, and single guest.

Step 2: Add a Surplus (The Golden Rule)
The true secret to a stress-free experience is to order more invitations than you think you need. Re-printing a small batch later is significantly more expensive and can cause unnecessary delays. We consider ordering a surplus essential.

Your final order number should be your base count PLUS:

An additional 10-15% for extras.
This is non-negotiable. This buffer covers last-minute guest additions, keepsakes for you and your family, a pristine copy for your photographer, and a safeguard for any mishaps in the mail.

Enough invitations for your 'B-List', if you have one.

An extra 10-1t5 envelopes. If you're working with a calligrapher or addressing them yourselves, this buffer for potential errors is absolutely vital.

Navigating Guest List Etiquette with Style

Managing your guest list is an exercise in grace and clarity. A few strategic considerations and key phrases will ensure your intentions are communicated beautifully, leaving no room for confusion.

The Art of the "Plus-One"

The modern standard of hospitality includes extending a "plus-one" to any married, engaged, or cohabiting couples, as well as your entire wedding party. It is also a deeply thoughtful gesture for any guests in a long-term, serious relationship, or for a friend or relative who may not know anyone else in attendance.

Defining Your Guest Count with Grace

For celebrations with firm venue capacity, absolute clarity is key. The most effective and polite method is to include this definitive line on your RSVP card:

"We have reserved __ seat(s) in your honour."

By filling in the number "1" or "2" before mailing, you graciously remove all ambiguity and confirm precisely who the invitation is extended to.

Hosting an Adults-Only Celebration

Communicating your preference for an adults-only event is best achieved with an elegant, two-part strategy.

Address with Intention: Your envelope addressing is the first signal. Address it exclusively to the invited adults, for example, "Mr and Mrs James Smith," rather than "The Smith Family."

A Note of Clarity: Secondly, include a discreet but clear line on your Details Card or wedding website. A simple phrase such as, "We respectfully request this be an adults-only celebration," is all that is needed. This directness is both modern and widely appreciated.

Your Story, Beautifully Told

You are now equipped with the strategy and etiquette to navigate your stationery journey with confidence. The next step is the most exciting: translating your personal style into an unforgettable design that you and your guests will treasure.

At Felicitations, we believe the finest stationery is a blend of artful design, luxurious materials, and a seamless, personal process. Whether you are drawn to the timeless elegance of letterpress or the bold statement of modern acrylic, our Perth studio is here to bring your vision to life.

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Your Complete Guide to Wording & Etiquette

To provide immediate, comprehensive guidance, we have compiled our complete 21-page editorial on wording and etiquette into a single, beautifully designed guide.

Inside, you will find detailed inspiration and expert advice for every stage of your journey, including:

- Engagement Party & Save the Date Wording
- Crafting Your Main Invitation Suite
- RSVP, Wishing Well & Adults-Only Phrasing
- Ideas for On-the-Day Stationery & Signage
- Thank You Card Messages & Etiquette

This curated booklet is designed to be saved, referenced, and used as your personal guide throughout the planning process.

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